The Next Big Step in Adulting

It’s been a little quieter than usual around these parts lately, but for a very good reason. I know I’ve been holding out on you guys, but I’m excited to announce *drum roll please* I’m officially a homeowner! Ahhhh!

The next big step in adulting. Officially a homeowner!

Let me rewind a little. I’ve been living in the same apartment for the past four and half years, but each year the rent has gone up a bit (including the additional monthly “pet rent”). After about two years, I started looking around at other places for rent in the area, but the big kicker was the non-refundable pet deposit that seemed to be tied to every property for rent, both apartment and townhouse/house. While I could live with the $300 I had to put down in 2012 when I moved in, by 2014, the going rate everywhere had gone up to $500 (non-refundable), which is absolutely crazy to me! I didn’t want to shell that out, so decided to stick it out a little longer since moving would be even more of a hassle.

In April 2016 when I renewed the lease again, I decided that would be the last time. And that it was. I started watching real estate sites to see what kind of houses were going up, how much they were, how long on the market, etc. in the fall, and by early January, began to officially go look at properties. And within a couple weeks, an offer was made and accepted! Next came the mortgage process, inspection, packing, and the move (along with lots of furniture assembly)!


It’s been quite the whirlwind. And of course, all of this happened in the middle of our busiest time of year at work AND in the midst of a huge surprise birthday party weekend my mom, sisters, and I had been planning for months for my dad’s 50th!

I can’t wait to share more with you on this BIG step in adulting! But for now, bear with me as I get settled into the new digs. I’m hoping to be back in full swing with regular programming here on Small Towns & City Lights soon!

  • Congratulations! Buying a house is such an achievement!

  • OMG YAY! Congratulations! So happy for you :)

  • Sirri McNeil

    Congratulations! How exciting!

  • Omg…that’s amazing! Congrats!

  • Congratulations!! That’s so exciting! Sheba is clearly settling in nicely ;)

  • Molly Gibson Kirby

    Yay! Congratulations. A new beginning.


  • Abbey Phipps

    So exciting! Congratulations!

  • That is so exciting! Congrats. :)

  • Congrats! That’s so awesome!

  • Congrats! That’s such exciting news!

  • Candy Kage

    Rent is getting out of control and even harder when you have pets. Happy you found a house and can enjoy being there for sometime.

  • YAY!!!! congrats!!!!!! That’s amazing news!

  • So so exciting! Congrats!

  • Jamie Fray

    Congratulations on your new home!! Good luck with getting settled in. And enjoy it–don’t get frustrated with everything not being perfect immediately. You only get that FIRST home one time in your life. It will always be special :)

  • Congrats!!! I’ve been meaning to text you about this since my mom told me the great news! I’m so excited for you!!!

  • Congrats! Can’t wait to here more about this and read more about your updates on it here on the blog!

  • Congrats!! So exciting! I know the place we are moving next week will be our last place before our home purchase! The rents i swear just keep going up up up!

  • Kelsey Caroline Nagel

    Congrats! Your dog is adorable I love it.

  • Congratulations! I can’t wait to hear/see more.

  • Yay that’s so exciting! Congrats lady. We actually put an offer on a home a few weeks ago and it was accepted but it had 11k worth of issues after inspection so we ended up backing out. Here’s to hoping next year we have a better outcome.

  • Ahh congrats babe! So excited to read whats to come.

    Alix |

  • YAY! Congratulations!! So exciting and can’t wait to see what you do with it :)

  • Congrats, girl!! That is soooo exciting!

  • Sarah Camille Hipp

    Woo hoo! That is super exciting. Homeownership is a huge step towards adulting. Congrats!! :-)

  • OMG congrats! Homeownership is a huge dream of mine! You go girl!

    ​xx katie // a touch of teal

  • Robin

    Congratulations!!! It’s such a big accomplishment – even getting through the process of BUYING the house at all is a huge deal. Can’t wait to see the pictures!!

  • Wow! Congratulations!! That’s a huge deal!

  • Awww I love your dog. Congratulation and I remembered when i brought my house how exciting it was. xx

  • Sam Rosenfeld

    I love this life update, buying a house is a crazy process- I just did it in January. Congrats! Thank you so much for sharing!

  • That’s amazing! Congratulations! I totally know what you mean about pet rent. It was so hard to find a place that didn’t charge that!

  • How exciting! Congratulations! I got my condo years ago for the same reason – the rent kept going up at a ridiculous rate, and so did the pet deposit. It was one of the best decisions I made. You will be so happy to have your own space that you own!

  • Sarah Jean

    Congratulations!! I think it’s cool you decided to move for your furbaby too. Enjoy your new home!

  • Ashley Stephenson

    Congrats!!! Moving can be so dreadful but so much fun!

  • Congrats! What an amazing accomplishment! I’m excited for the day I finally own something :)

  • Congratulations! That’s awesome and so exciting!

  • Jae

    My husband and I are on the fence about moving to a bigger apartment because we remain on the lookout for houses, too. Our lease will be up soon, so we have to make up our minds sooner. Congratulations on this milestone!

  • Ayana

    It’s a lot of work, that’s for sure!! But congratulations! So exciting!

  • Sheila Jo Spencer

    Congrats on the new home! It’s a BIG step, but so nice to know that the place you live is YOURS!

  • Hannah Palamara

    Congratulations! Thats so exciting!

  • Taylor Mobley

    What an adventure! Adulting can be so tough sometimes but so worth it! best of luck!

  • Looks like you have so much going on! Congrats on your new home, hope it brings a lot of happiness and laughter in your lives.

    xx, Kusum |

  • Congratulations! Home ownership is huge, but so wonderful. I can’t wait to hear more about your journey. Your dog is adorable, by the way :)

  • Congrats on your new home! Being a home owner is the best investment!

  • Congrats! Home owning is such a big deal! You go girl!

  • JP

    Congrats! I wish you all the best in your new home! Love you! Aunt Johanna

  • Congratulations! That is so exciting. I’m currently looking for my first home so I really cannot wait to hear about your whole process!

  • Jordyn Upchurch

    What an exciting big move! I can’t wait to hear more about the process and see the house!

    xoxo, SS

    Southern And Style

  • Congrats Rachel!! We just bought our first home in October and it is definitely a whirlwind but it’s so great to own your own place! Can’t wait to hear more about it!

  • awww congrats girl! you go! the pet fees apartments charge are ludicrous.

  • So exciting, congrats!!